I don’t know what it’s like to have down time anymore. Not as of late anyway. And I’m slacking on the blog, I know. But tis the Spring season, and events are a plenty. Including my own upcoming event…indeed, THE wedding.
Two of my besties inquired about dress shopping a few weeks back. “Ugh, the pressure of a dress,” I thought. I haven’t worked out but just a hand full of times since wee man came along. And if you’re not feeling great about your body, wedding dress (and/or bathing suit) shopping can really give you anxiety. I fought the urge to go on a 4-day hunger strike. But I really know better. I’d fail.
Of course I agreed to the outing. But more of an excuse to get in some girl time. And some mimosas. :D
If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you know that beauty is a mindset. If you feel beautiful on the inside then you will naturally radiate beauty, and this has nothing to do with weight. I repeat, NOTHING.
Here’s the pre-shopping plan:
- A week before your first appointment, start checking your ‘tude at the door. No more self bashing about eating that ice cream cone. Be nice to self!
- Every day, stand in front of the mirror naked and tell yourself you look beautiful (even if you don’t believe it).
- Wear something every day that makes you feel beautiful. For me, it’s a dress instead of slacks, heels instead of flats, and maybe a little eyeliner.
- The day of your appointment, do your hair and makeup similar to how you want it at your wedding. I didn’t do this, but wish I had for pictures’ sake.
- To psych yourself further, dance around your bedroom in your panties and heels. You may feel self conscious, but no one’s looking. Get a little crazy ,)
See? Doesn’t that take the pressure off?
Look at those hot mama's! What a great day that was!
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